Exploring the Power of Affirming Theology
- davidgmcdowell
- Nov 10
- 5 min read
Let’s be honest. Faith can sometimes feel like a maze. You wander through doctrines, traditions, and interpretations, hoping to find a path that feels like you. For many, especially those who identify as LGBTQ+ or have experienced religious trauma, that path can seem blocked or even nonexistent. But here’s the good news: there’s a growing movement toward inclusive faith principles that embrace everyone, no exceptions. And at the heart of this movement is something called affirming theology.
So, buckle up. We’re diving into what affirming theology means, why inclusive faith principles matter, and how they can transform your spiritual journey.
What Are Inclusive Faith Principles Anyway?
Inclusive faith principles are like the welcoming committee of the spiritual world. They say, “Hey, you belong here. No matter who you are, where you come from, or how you love.” These principles challenge the old-school idea that faith is only for a select few or that it requires you to check parts of yourself at the door.
Here’s the deal: inclusive faith principles focus on love, acceptance, and justice. They emphasize that spirituality should uplift, not exclude. This means:
Recognizing the dignity and worth of every person.
Embracing diversity in gender, sexuality, race, and background.
Encouraging open dialogue and questioning.
Rejecting harmful interpretations that marginalize or shame.
Imagine a faith community where you can bring your whole self—flaws, questions, and all—and still be celebrated. That’s the power of inclusive faith principles.

Why Inclusive Faith Principles Matter More Than Ever
You might wonder, “Why is this such a big deal now?” Well, for starters, many people have been hurt by faith communities that didn’t accept them. Religious trauma is real, and it leaves scars. When faith is used as a weapon instead of a source of comfort, it can push people away from spirituality altogether.
Inclusive faith principles offer a lifeline. They help rebuild trust and create spaces where healing can happen. Plus, they reflect the reality of our world—a world that’s beautifully diverse and constantly evolving.
Here’s why they matter:
Healing from Past Wounds: Inclusive faith communities acknowledge past harms and work actively to make amends.
Building Authentic Connections: When people feel accepted, they’re more likely to engage deeply and honestly.
Encouraging Growth: Faith isn’t static. Inclusive principles invite us to grow, question, and expand our understanding.
Promoting Social Justice: They align faith with movements for equality and human rights.
If you’ve ever felt like you had to hide parts of yourself to be “good enough” for faith, inclusive principles are a breath of fresh air.
What Does the Bible Say About Affirming?
Now, I know what you’re thinking: “But what about the Bible? Doesn’t it say this or that about LGBTQ+ folks?” This is where things get interesting—and sometimes tricky.
The Bible is a complex collection of texts written over centuries, in different languages and cultural contexts. People have interpreted it in countless ways, often influenced by their own biases. But if you look closely, you’ll find a strong current of love, justice, and inclusion running through its pages.
For example:
Jesus’ Ministry: He consistently reached out to the marginalized—tax collectors, women, Samaritans, and others who were often excluded.
The Greatest Commandment: “Love your neighbor as yourself” (Mark 12:31) is a clear call to radical love and acceptance.
Galatians 3:28: “There is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male nor female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.” This verse highlights unity beyond social divisions.
Of course, some passages have been used to exclude or condemn, but many scholars and theologians argue these interpretations miss the broader message of grace and inclusion.
So, when we talk about affirming theology, we’re embracing a way of reading scripture that centers on love, dignity, and belonging for all people.

How Affirming Theology Can Change Your Spiritual Life
Let me share a little secret: affirming theology isn’t just a fancy term for “nice words.” It’s a powerful tool for transformation. When you engage with faith through an affirming lens, it can:
Heal old wounds by replacing shame with acceptance.
Empower you to live authentically without fear of rejection.
Connect you with a community that truly sees and values you.
Inspire you to advocate for justice and equality in the world.
Here’s a practical example: imagine attending a church service where the prayers explicitly include LGBTQ+ people, where the sermons challenge harmful stereotypes, and where the leadership reflects the diversity of the congregation. That’s affirming theology in action.
If you’re exploring your faith or recovering from religious trauma, this approach can be a game-changer. It invites you to rewrite your spiritual story with compassion and hope.
How to Find or Build an Affirming Faith Community
Finding a faith community that embraces inclusive faith principles can feel like searching for a needle in a haystack. But don’t lose hope! Here are some tips to help you find or even create a space where you can thrive:
Do Your Homework: Look for churches or groups that explicitly state they are LGBTQ+ affirming or inclusive.
Ask Questions: Don’t be shy about asking leaders about their stance on inclusion and diversity.
Check Online Resources: Websites, social media, and forums can be great places to discover affirming communities.
Start Small: Attend a service or meeting to get a feel for the vibe before fully committing.
Create Your Own Space: If you can’t find what you need, consider starting a small group or online community focused on inclusive faith.
Remember, building or finding a supportive faith community is a journey. It takes time, patience, and sometimes a bit of trial and error.
Embracing Your Spiritual Journey with Openness and Courage
At the end of the day, your spiritual journey is uniquely yours. Embracing inclusive faith principles and affirming theology means giving yourself permission to explore, question, and grow without fear.
It’s about finding a faith that doesn’t ask you to sacrifice your identity but celebrates it. It’s about healing from past hurts and stepping into a future filled with hope and love.
So, whether you’re just starting to question or you’ve been on this path for a while, know that there’s a place for you. A place where faith and identity can coexist beautifully.
And hey, if you ever feel lost, remember: the journey itself is part of the story. Keep walking, keep seeking, and keep believing in a faith that affirms you.

If you want to dive deeper into this topic or need support navigating your faith journey, check out resources and guidance at The Preacher Man. They’re all about creating a loving, open space for folks just like you.



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